(where I find asking "Pronouns" doesn't imply, as "Preferred Pronouns" often seems to, that trans people's pronouns are mere preferences where cis people's pronouns are…set? enforced? some such thing.)

(language is fun! wait no not that thing, not this time. the other thing.)

I very appreciate how many ysabetwordsmith works I see partly or wholly because you sponsored them 😸